Am i being irrational?!?!?

You have a right to be upset. He should love and respect you as the possible mother of his child and as his wife and mate in life. The fact that he is willing to leave you behind in order to switch jobs, is just sad and not morally right. Jobs are very hard to come by in this economy. I would not recommend any job change right now. I have 16 years of award winning marketing and business development and I am a Med School Graduate. I just now found a job after seeking any employment in either field for over 1 year. We had been living on soup and pop tarts and our only entertainment was playing cards or watching movies at the house with friends. He should consider the possible poverty he could be setting your family up for and respect the fact he has a job that is providing money for your home, car, food and the vitro. Many would love to be in his place right now and this behavior is selfish. If this vitro does not take, please reconsider any further vitro until you are certain he will be around and is mentally ready for this child. This is not the environment to bring a baby into. If you are pregnant and he leaves for a different job, you can still set up child support payments through the court system to ure money is being taken from his check and the child is being provided for. You may also be able to collect Alimony, if you are financially dependent upon him, even if you return to work, you and the baby have rights. Do not be afraid to contact an attorney to set up child support. If your husband is willing to send you money each week, that is great, but call child support court and make sure he is providing you with the correct amount. Many women are happy the man is sending checks and do not realize that they are being jipped. Last of all, are you able to go with him and have him fully support you and the child? Be a full time, at home, mom? It is the best way to ure your marriage remains in tact. Good luck, God Bless and Pray for guidance.