How do you handle Ahole people who have huge egos over money, intellect, etc?

Here's what I've learned in my 24 years of life: kindness is a rare breed. Most of the people you will meet in your life you'll find they are severely flawed. It's easier to be disrespectful and rude than to show sympathy for others. My advice would be to just ignore these people because you are already superior to them just by your acknowledgement that they are indeed, negative and malcious. Just feel happy knowing that your conscience is clean from having high moral standards. Can't say the same for those people you're talking about.